Today I attended a workshop on "Dilemmas in Interpersonal relationships". And I realized for the first since being in a relationship, we haven't followed many rituals that needs to be followed generally in a typical formation of the relationship. and those rituals were, having fights, having frequent fights and having fights every now and then. This fighting scene ends with a process of re-evaluation and reconciliation.
Wow! this workshop was a goody set of knowledge I received on how to recover through disturbed relationships. I hope this on, I would be able to council more effectively to all my heart-broken friends (I wish I could call them patients too) and for myself, god forbidden but if ever i fall in such situation.
Also I consider it to be the piece of information which would help me during writing my book "prescription for broken hearts"
that's really interesting relationships also need re-evaluation and reconciliation.
ReplyDeletewe can surely arrange one day camp for all the heart brake kids, who need counseling i am very sure you will get good success.
and also what precautionary measures one can take before falling in into any kind of relationship.
Hey I'm not a counselor, so I may not be able to give you accurate advice. I just try to help my friends to resolve their problem in relationships.
ReplyDeleteWell I guess no relationship needs any precautionary measures to be taken. If you come across any issues or problem in the relationship then that needs to be addressed but otherwise, I guess in absence of any issue if you try to be over reactive/ precautionary in any relationship that would rather damage the relation.
What shall be solution for a problem in relationship totally depends upon the degree of the dilemma and the willingness or emotional involvement of the two in that relationship. There cannot be one thumb rule since its human relationship (behavioral science) and not material science.
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ReplyDeleteRelationship works only on one sentence - khud bhi jilo, aur dusare ko bhi jine do.. trust me if everyone follows this line, no one will have issue, I will bet on this.
ReplyDeleteI dont agree to mangesh bhai, you cant let somebody distroy you and you remain in dark silence. i do agree that sometimes silence is bigger healer or louder then words but some time you have to react, may be react to protect your relationship....
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